About Us
What we're about
San Diego Bi+ Girls is a friendly and inclusive social group for all bi+ women—single, partnered, married, or something else entirely.
We’re dedicated to building community and expanding our friend circles in a relaxed and supportive environment. Join us for casual meetups around San Diego, including evenings at local bars and breweries, friendly competition at bowling alleys, fun in the sun at beach outings, and enjoying the vibrant atmosphere of local festivals.
Our goal is simple: to create genuine connections, share fun experiences, and foster new friendships. Whether you’re looking to meet other bi+ women, connect with people who understand your experiences, or simply expand your queer social network, we’d love for you to join us!
Let’s build a fun and supportive community together. Join us!
Join Us!
Looking for your people? You’ve found them! Join our community to connect with an amazing and diverse group of bisexual+ women. This is your space to make new friends who understand your lived experiences—no explanations needed.
You’ll get all the details on our packed calendar of virtual meetups and IRL group hangouts. From low-pressure game nights and nights out clubbing to book clubs and supportive discussion circles, there’s always something fun happening.
Find Connection & Belonging with Bi+ Women in San Diego
Welcome! We’re creating a unique and valuable online community for all bisexual+ women in San Diego.
This is a dedicated, welcoming space for you—whether you’re single or partnered—to connect with other bi+ women who share your experiences and understand the nuances of our identity.
We’re all about celebrating our queer identities and building strong, genuine friendships. This is your supportive network for discussing challenges, celebrating the joys of our lives, and fostering a true senseof belonging right here in our city.
Come build community with us. Sign up to connect!
Bisexual Erasure
Married or partnered bisexual+ women, regardless of their relationship structure – whether in monogamous, polyamorous, or ethically non-monogamous commitments – often navigate a distinct set of challenges and even encounter biphobia. Within monogamous relationships with a partner of a different gender, their bisexuality can be erased or questioned, with assumptions of heterosexuality becoming the default.
Conversely, in same-gender relationships, their attraction to other genders might be dismissed as a phase or a sign of not being “truly” lesbian. For those in polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships, their bisexuality can be hypersexualized or seen as inherently linked to their relationship style, rather than an intrinsic part of their identity. Across all relationship structures, bisexual+ women may face skepticism from within both heterosexual and other LGBTQ+ circles, struggling to have their identity validated and understood beyond the confines of their current partnership.
Our community intends to create a safe space for bisexual+ women, regardless of relationship status, to make new friends, support each other, and have some fun while being our true selves!
Why a community for both single and partnered bisexual women?
Bisexual+ people represent a substantial part of the LGBTQ+ community, yet face ongoing underrepresentation and have their authenticity challenged by both heterosexual and other LGBTQ+ individuals. This struggle is intensified by a societal preference for binary categories, which often marginalizes nuanced identities.
The common assumption that individuals are either exclusively gay or straight based solely on their relationship status or current partner’s gender overlooks the reality of bisexuality+. This societal tendency can be attributed, in part, to discomfort with identities that challenge traditional, heteronormative understandings of attraction. It is essential for all members of the LGBTQ+ community to actively recognize and celebrate the existence and validity of bisexual+ identities, fostering a sense of shared community.
We must also acknowledge the diverse realities within the bisexual+ spectrum. Bisexual+ individuals are not all monogamous or cisgender, and the ability to come out is not a universal privilege. The decision to come out can be particularly challenging for bisexual+ individuals who may anticipate facing ignorant reactions, fear losing family connections, or reside in areas where queer identities are unsafe or criminalized.
We have created a community where the identities of all bisexual+ women are recognized and celebrated.
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Join our friendly group to meet other bisexual+ women, make new friends, and see a schedule of our group outings!