Frequently Asked Questions
How do I join?
Click the Sign Up button on the top bar or click here to Register.
Who can join?
All women who identify as bisexual or bicurious are welcome to join. We have groups for women in committed relationships where one partner is bisexual or bicurious, as well as groups for single bisexual women. If your sexuality falls under the bisexual umbrella, this is your home!
Is there a cost to join?
Not at this time. We’re in Beta, so we’re still shaking off all the rust.
Eventually, new members will be able to join with a 7-day free trial. After the trial period, our memberships will be just $3.99 per month!
Is this a dating website?
What gender or sexual identities are welcome?
We embrace and celebrate the full spectrum of sexual and gender identities of those who identify as women within the bisexual umbrella. This includes individuals who identify as bisexual, bicurious, pansexual, omnisexual, queer, fluid, and heteroflexible. Each identity brings its own unique experiences and perspectives, contributing to a rich tapestry of diversity and inclusion.
What kind of events does the group host?
We organize welcoming meetups at a variety of queer-friendly local establishments, including vibrant bars and breweries known for their inclusive atmospheres. These gatherings often take place in local spots where friends can enjoy a fun-filled night of laughter, as well as in other public venues that foster a sense of community.
In addition, we host sun-soaked beach gatherings along our beautiful coastline, featuring opportunities for swimming, beach games, and socializing under the sun. Our picnics in picturesque local parks invite participants to bring their favorite snacks and enjoy leisurely afternoons surrounded by nature and good company. Additionally, we arrange group outings to lively local festivals, providing a chance to celebrate culture, music, and diversity while making new friends and connections.
Is this group only for people in San Diego?
Yes. This group is for women who reside in the greater San Diego area.
Is this a swingers group?
No. While some of our members may identify as swingers, this is not a swingers’ group. We are a social community.
Are poly+, ENM, or open partnerships welcome?
Yes! Regardless of your relationship structure – whether monogamous, polyamorous, or ethically non-monogamous – all partnerships that have a member who identifies as a bi+ woman are welcome to join.
What kinds of groups will I find in the community?
We have several groups that members can join, including:
- The Bi+ Lounge
Our central meeting spot for all of our members - San Diego Bi+ Wives
A friendly group exclusively for partnered bi+ women - Bi-Curious Corner
A safe, no-pressure space for women who are questioning their sexuality or newly identifying as part of the bi umbrella - The Spicy Lounge
A dedicated NSFW space for sharing explicit content, adult chat, and sensual expression for verified members - Bi+ Gamers
A group for finding teammates, streaming, and discussing video games and tabletop RPGs - Nuestro Rincón
Un espacio en español para que las mujeres bi+ hagan amigas, pregunten y hablen de todo lo que les importa (A Spanish-language space for bi+ women to make friends, ask questions, and talk about anything and everything that matters to you) - The V-List
A secure, private space for members who have completed our female verification process, ensuring a trusted, women-only space for authentic connection
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Come and join our friendly, active group! We are a vibrant community built to help bisexual+ women meet each other, share stories, and build lasting friendships in a truly welcoming environment.
As a member, you’ll learn all about our schedule of events, which are designed for every comfort level. It’s the perfect, low-pressure way to connect, laugh, and just be your authentic self. We can’t wait to meet you!
The Bisexual Umbrella
What is the Bisexual Umbrella?
San Diego Bi Girls usew the term “bisexual umbrella” to describe a range of sexual preference identities that share the commonality of attraction to more than one gender. It’s a way to be inclusive of the diverse experiences and labels people use to describe their non-monosexual attractions.
Here are some of the identities that commonly fall under the bisexual umbrella:
- Bisexual: Attraction to more than one gender. This is the core identity of the umbrella and can encompass a wide range of experiences and preferences. Some bisexual people may be attracted to men and women, while others may include non-binary genders in their attraction. It’s important to note that bisexuality doesn’t necessarily mean equal attraction to all genders.
- Pansexual: Attraction to all genders, or attraction regardless of gender. For pansexual individuals, gender is not a determining factor in their attraction.
- Omnisexual: Attraction to all genders, with gender often playing a role in the attraction. Unlike pansexual individuals who may not notice or care about gender, omnisexual individuals may find themselves attracted to different genders in different ways.
- Polysexual: Attraction to multiple genders, but not necessarily all genders. This identity acknowledges attraction to more than two genders but doesn’t encompass the “all genders” aspect of pansexuality or omnisexuality.
- Fluid: Describes individuals whose attraction to different genders may change over time. This fluidity can vary in frequency and intensity.
- Queer: While “queer” can be an umbrella term for the entire LGBTQIA+ community, some individuals specifically identify as queer to describe their non-monosexual attraction without feeling the need to be more specific. It can also represent a rejection of traditional labels and a more fluid understanding of sexuality.
- Multisexual: Similar to polysexual, indicating attraction to more than one gender.
- Biromantic: Experiencing romantic attraction to more than one gender, but not necessarily sexual attraction.
- Panromantic: Experiencing romantic attraction to all genders, regardless of gender.
- Polyromantic: Experiencing romantic attraction to multiple genders, but not necessarily all genders.
It’s important to remember that these are just some of the more common identities, and individuals may use other terms or no specific label at all. The language around sexual identity is constantly evolving, and the most important thing is to respect how individuals choose to identify themselves. The “bi+” term is also used as a shorthand to include bisexual and other multi-gender attracted identities.